Flirting with self-confident and clear view requires a good amount of self- assurance and the ability to study body language, but it can be one of the most powerful ways to sign that you’re interested in someone. Women in particular really appreciate it when guys are n’t afraid to open up and be upfront about their feelings, especially if they know that the guy is feeling the same way.

When it comes to flirting, somebody has their own style and tastes. Some people like to drop a dozen sexual innuendos into their dialogue, others are more secure with more subtle signs of interest ( like twirling their hair or rubbing their hands up), while some may even opt for the vintage choose- up series. It’s important to find what works best for you, but it’s also important not to get caught up in the misconception that there is a “right” or “wrong” way to do things.

Many people assume that primary approaches are better for convinced people while direct approaches are best for stressed ones, but the truth is that it’s completely up to you how you want to approach someone. Indirect conversations tend to work better when you’re talking about an inside issue or person, so you can focus on avoiding modest speak about the weather and asking about what she does for a living. In the end, it’s all about finding what feels most organic to you and being honest about your feelings—even if that means telling her right off the bat that you find her attractive.